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      I’m (detail removed by moderator) wk pregnant and left the father as he wasnt at all nice to me. He never physically hit me but it is definitely verbal abuse! I told him because we weren’t together anymore not to message and I’d keep him up to date with any news about baby and his response was that he was going to take me to court for being unreasonable! I didnt reply and he messaged saying sorry and then was being overly nice and continued to message. I asked him again today to stop messaging and his response was odd. I’m now really scared for covid19 to end because it’s the only thing keeping him away! When he was being himself it was easier to deal with but since hes been overly nice I know that hes going to be really horrible at the other end of it! He often prides himself of not reacting at the moment and then hitting hard at a later date!! I’m offically scared as he does have a hot temper and is very unpredictable in how acts when angry! I dont trust him anywhere near me and I wont trust him anywhere near baby when its born!I’m so scared of what’s coming next!! 😭😭

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      Hi, okay you’ve told him 2x to leave you alone. Next time he contacts you , however nice being, contact the police. Don’t even reply to him. Let them know what the relationship has been like, that you’ve asked him 2x to leave you alone. As long as you don’t get into a tit4tat with him they will take it seriously. The police are aware of da,manipulation and coercive behaviour. When you call them be sure to ask for domestic abuse officers.
      Best wishes IWMB 💞💞

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