He’s acting victim and contact issues

[Itwastimetostopit]

Ooohhh I’m so mad and upset
My eldest son doesn’t want contact but his dad has not respected this.
He has basically tried to emotionally blackmail him into contact, gave him ultimatum. My son gets overwhelmed
I broke contact to go through his family cos It wasn’t right.
I ended up receiving emails all about him.
Not one word about how my son feels.
Banging on about me lying about things between us.

Now he says only wants contact with one son.

On a positive his emails didn’t have the effect of the past.
I need to accept he will always blame others and he’s self claimed perfection

[KIP.]

They all play the victim but you know the truth. Back to zero contact. He can go through proper legal channels if he wants contact x

[Itwastimetostopit]

Definitely
I only did it cos he contacted my son
But he couldn’t help himself I guess

Social services are involved atm but my eldest is over age. But he’s got learning disabilities and is vulnerable

[Author]

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