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    • #122603
      sweet4
      Participant

      hi
      Just recived an email, he has got a solicitor.
      Phew!!!

    • #122612
      KIP.
      Participant

      You can bet he’s been preparing for a while too. Time to gather your strength because he will leave you with nothing if he can. Gather any paperwork you can. Bank statements. Mortgage statements. Any pensions paperwork. Car ownership papers. The starting point is 50/50 of all marital assets. He’s going to lie to you. He’s probably been hiding money too x

    • #122613
      sweet4
      Participant

      Thanks Kip
      I cant belive how long it takes for this order to go through.
      Having to listen to their whispers.It is awful having to live like this on a daily basis.

      Walking on eggshells around them, trying to dodge them.
      hes been lying to me his whole life, im used to the deceit.
      (detail removed by moderator), what a waste of a life.
      xx

    • #122615
      KIP.
      Participant

      I remember. It didn’t take long once the divorce started for things to get dangerous. Don’t rush into anything. He’s going to have to talk to you and try to bully you into agreeing to his terms. He’s paying for a solicitor and he won’t like that.

    • #122616
      sweet4
      Participant

      Yes Kip
      Thats the good thing, i didnt have to pay for it.
      I could noT Go for the divorce as NCDV said if i was going for a divorce they would not of been able to help me with the injunction.Im not going to reply to the solicitor, why should i, i have an injunction in place for the both of them.xx

    • #122617
      sweet4
      Participant

      I forgot to say, hes stopped paying the mortgage. xx

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