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      They just rang me right now as I was writing my post title. I have the number for a support group and a number for a group of solicitors specialising in domestic abuse.
      I will now ring both.
      My husband is playing coercive games with me, I know it because of something I did to test him. His reaction is so predictable…
      I felt so low recently, trying to adapt is unbearably difficult and leads nowhere. It is not a life. My older child even tried to subject me to the same coercive abuse, it’s heart breaking to see. There is no “innocence” in that child any more, there is an awful personality building instead. It’s frightening to see.
      I fought and battled against nonsense, illogical situations, wrong beliefs and entitlement, I fought and fought. I should have gone decades ago.
      He still has me in his grip. Still, always, it’s never ending.

    • #25519
      Ayanna
      Participant

      I am glad you did that! I am really proud of you! x*x

    • #25531
      KIP.
      Participant

      Well done. My son has his fathers genes and I cannot deal with him up close. Once you are independent and away physically, you can make your own rules and boundaries. There is no respect for you when you stay with an abuser. It’s like you are using all your energy just surviving. You have none left to fight back. Get a good solicitor and take the shirt off his back. Maybe then he will show some respect X

    • #25571
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      Well done girl power xx hugs

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