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  • #87001

    Hi everyone,

    Im hoping I have found the right place here. My ex has not long got out of prison earlier than I thought after what he did to me, and I’m struggling to get him off my mind. I’m confused and want the thoughts to stop. I keep wondering if me thinking about him means I still care about him?? Hmmm…

    Any help please? X

  • #87013

    Hey rainbow butterfly

    Yes you’ve found the right place. Everyon here is wonderfully supportive and we’re at all different stages of our stories.
    What you’re feeling is normal and all part of the trauma bond – have a read up about it and it’ll help you make sense of the crazy feelings you have for man that first deserve you and you need to stay as far away from as possible! Also check out narcissistic abuse – this helped me enormously!
    I’m leaving (detail removed by moderator). I have cried buckets over the last few days, I don’t want to leave but I know I have to and I need to stay strong. The ladies on here have helped me to remember the truth and not get blinded by my emotions.

    Welcome to our virtual sanctuary for sanity and support.

  • #87015

    That should have read ‘doesn’t deserve you’! 😌

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