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    • #7148

      Oh god this just gets worser, feel sick to my stomach as he dad calls eldest and finds out what I’m upto . Feel trap again , haven’t mention to my son as he will think of a worser way to get me back with his dad …. I’m so angry and shock how can my son go against me like this , this is never ending , all the stress is going to be make me I’ll ….

    • #7154
      Falling Skys

      Hi Confused123

      It says more about how low your ex is than your son.

      My ex gets all the information about me from our son.

      I get angry too but I then remember how I used to be fooled by him. Sadly I am a very open person but I now have to keep alot of things close to my chest.

    • #7157

      How do u stay calm , I am livid but again playing ex at his game and giving no reaction , my son is nearly full adult age he should no better, I swear I feel at point where this boy has gone too far is trying to control me like his dad

    • #7158

      Hi Confused,

      Like me, you have tried very hard to give no reaction to things, but I suppose there are times when that needs to go out the window and you need to say your piece. I suppose this is one of them.
      Take a deep breath, and re-assert your rights.

      Remember on the Bill of Rights ( shown to us on the Pattern Changing course), one of the rights is privacy!

    • #7167
      Falling Skys

      Hi Confused

      I am embarrassed to say I don’t always stay calm. something’s I can ignore with a deep breath others not.

      But when I do challenge something I stay calm.

      My son is an adult and I am gutted to say my ex has worked his abusive magic on him, like he did me.

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