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    • #59000
      Ayanna
      Participant

      In his divorce petition he complained that I was not always a willing sexual object to his needs.

      How can such (Detail removed by Moderator)get support from these (Detail removed by Moderator)?????

      (Detail removed by Moderator)

    • #59003
      Ayanna
      Participant

      And also, when he raped me it really hurt.
      I did not want to feel this pain all the time.
      At the time I was not able to speak that word out loud and clear: RAPE
      (Detail removed by Moderator)
      It happened to me.
      I was not heard. I was not supported. I had no help.
      F**k them all!!!

    • #59005
      maddog
      Participant

      I feel your pain. Just wanted to let you know you’re not alone.

    • #59006
      Poodlepower
      Participant

      He actually phrased it like that in his divorce petition??? That’s truly shocking, no wonder you’re angry!
      Stay strong x

    • #59012
      Freedomfighter
      Participant

      It’s unbelievable! At least it should be in this day and age. Unfortunately many of us know exactly what you mean and how you feel.
      My heart goes out to you. Stay strong and hold on to your anger to get you through this. You have the love, support and understanding of all of us.
      Sending you hugs

    • #59020
      Ayanna
      Participant

      Alright, most of what I wrote was deleted by the moderator.
      I am upset.

    • #59022
      Ayanna
      Participant

      I am always silenced.
      I never have a voice!
      I am f*****g upset!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • #59045
      enofadov
      Participant

      Oh my goodness….how can he be allowed to put that??? Surely his solicitor had something to say about how wrong that is????
      I’m angry for you
      I’d use it as clarity….he wanted you as an object for his sexual needs which everyone would agree is very wrong
      Hugs and strength x*x

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