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      Well yesterday he said another women was stressed to the nine. Then I told him he’s upset me and today he says well you can dress to the nine when we go out he said it was a joke. His jokes actually bother me. I feel like he calls me sexy and hot but doesn’t make me feel beautiful. He says other women good why settle for them when your the best like seriously. I don’t know why I love him so much anymore. I feel like he does not appreciate me. Wondering if I actually did the right thing from going back in to the relationship when all I feel is sadness at the moment in my life I am really unhappy and I don’t know if it is just me or if it is the relationship anymore.

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      KIP.
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      Have you read ‘Living with the Dominator’ by Pat Craven? I can highly recommend it. They hide their abusive behaviour behind ‘jokes’. I was only joking. It’s just a joke. You can’t take a joke. You’re too sensitive. Everyone else found it funny. My ex used to humiliate me and use these excuses. If it hurts it’s not a joke.

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