My eldest told me today that my ex says that I ran off with a substantial sum in a deposit account.
Of course, this is a blatant lie. He had multiple hidden accounts. He took my money and left me at minus.
I have had to start thinking about what my ex is planning when he lies, the reasons for his lies, and I am thinking that he has planted the seed in my son’s mind so that when he fails to contribute to my son’s university fees ( the amount is about the same), this will be his excuse- and then I am meant to pay it all alone, as I apparently ‘stole this amount.’
Do you ladies see how expert a liar he is, how his mind works like a spider spinning a complex web, and that his lies extend into a future that hasn’t even happened yet?!
Thank God I can see how he thinks.
I told my son clearly and succinctly that he had been lied to. X