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      Findinghope
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      Hi,
      So I left my ex a few months ago.
      It has been a roller coaster of emotions…
      I am due to go on holiday next week with child and other family which he knew about and had no issue with. However now he is threatening me by saying he will ensure I get arrested at the airport for abduction because I haven’t been as ‘friendly’ with him as he wants.
      He has a new partner and doesn’t live in our house. Rarely sees our child.
      What do I do?!
      Thanks

    • #165957
      Hereforhelp
      Participant

      Hi, unless there’s a court order in place to state that you cannot leave the country with your child? Otherwise he is trying to scare you and cause anxiety…

      Enjoy your holiday and try to ignore what he says to you.. if he ramps it up with threats could you have a word with the police and they can explain it to him?

      It is so good that you are out

      HFH ❤️

    • #165964
      gettingtoknowmyself
      Participant

      What Hereforhelp said 👏 unless there’s a court order forbidding you, it’s just scare tactics. My ex used to make all sorts of similar legal threats – he was either trying to get inside my head, or didn’t actually have a clue what he was talking about, or both. Sometimes I think he imagined the world like some sort of exaggerated American TV legal drama series…

      Have a wonderful, peaceful holiday and do get support from police/other authorities beforehand if you’re concerned.

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