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28th February 2016 at 7:07 pm #10705At my wits endParticipant
Hi.
I currently rent a HA home i am the sole tenant. I am wondering wether i could get my partner out under ASBO rules. I dont want to risk losing my house because of the moron.Any advice please
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28th February 2016 at 8:06 pm #10709Whattodo2016Participant
If your the sole tenant then just ask him to leave, if he doesn’t call the police. If he’s not on the tenancy he will have to leave. X
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28th February 2016 at 8:08 pm #10710AyannaParticipant
When you are the sole tenant you just need to tell him to leave. If he does not leave you can call police. Also, inform the HA that he refuses to leave. The cards are in your favour.
Just make sure you are safe.
You could also change locks when he is out of the house. Then he cannot get back in. He is not a tenant there, and living there without your permission is like burglary anyway.
Also go to CAB to back yourself up with correct advice. x*x -
28th February 2016 at 8:17 pm #10712At my wits endParticipant
Thank you for your replies. I want to avoid the police as i worry with my kids being here i dont want social services being involved. Im just sick of him.
I psy his bills and now hes kicking off cos he cant have a new car even though he doesnt work. I do full time and im paying out twice for mobiles car ins etc.
If he cant get his own way hes abusive.
(removed by moderator) ive had of this. Id give up my job and move away once hes gone. I swear id never let him near me again. He makes me sick. Hes a petulant child -
28th February 2016 at 8:23 pm #10714AyannaParticipant
Do not worry calling the police. Social services will not interfere when your children are safe and he is gone for good. You are doing the correct thing, so do not be afraid. Usually calling the police is the best thing because he is logged and this can be of great help for you if he misbehaves.
He is financially abusing you. Do not let this happen anymore. You should not work to support a parasite. x*x -
29th February 2016 at 9:20 am #10733At my wits endParticipant
I know. I feel such a mug. I guess i worry about SS cos ive got rid twice and took him back like an absolute idiot. Shortly after i wrote my last post yesterday we had yet another row. The way he just came up to me starting going on about cars yet again i just rolled my eyes. A few weeks back he wanted a van. I cant keep up at all. I know it sounds petty but he just thinks i can magic these things out the air.
I told him straight last night ‘if you keep doing this we will split up’ to which he replied ‘oh no i dont want that again’ then hugged me.
He has no idea about mental health. And thats what hurts more than the physical side. -
29th February 2016 at 9:29 am #10735Confused123Participant
Hey HUn
When the police come they will put your kids in another room so they dont hear or see anything, u can do this hun
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29th February 2016 at 12:15 pm #10745AyannaParticipant
Oh no, he is really using you to have a nice life. We call this slavery in other words ….
Please get rid of him.
What holds you back? Is he so good looking?
We are so clouded in our thinking until it is almost too late.
Be strong and kick him out. Otherwise you will always be poor. x*x -
3rd March 2016 at 9:31 am #10899At my wits endParticipant
Hi all. Sorry its taken so long to reply.
No he is no prince charming. I dont even fancy him.I really dont want police involvement. But if it comes to it i will.
He is just such a sad loser.
He isnt capable of doing anything by himself.
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