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    • #30185

      I’m all ready and prepared got a bag in a safe place outside my home. Can’t get any paperwork I might need because he will notice I’ve moved stuff in the letter cupboard (he notices everything). I’ve got my date that I’m ready to leave for refuge.
      Now I’m panicking what if I ring the helpline on the day then they have no where for me and my son. He will know I’ve gone and I’ll have nowhere to go. (I’m going to work and leaving from there). And what if it’s too far and I don’t have enough money to get me there. It could be hours away right? Thank you for listening

    • #30208
      Falling Skys

      Hi Ariel

      You are so brave and you are doing the right thing.

      Are you able to contact any of the organisations before you leave they know.

      I’m sure that some one will get you where you need to be.

      All I can say my heart is with you

      Stay strong

      FS xx

    • #30510

      Hello Ariel,

      I do not know how it works, as I’m just in the process of preparing to leave as well. So I’ve got lots of questions myself. But I do wish you best of luck. Hope everything will go smoothly for you.

      I’m very glad to hear that you are getting out, you’re so brave.

      Did you manage to get some of your stuff out of the house?

      Apple x*x

    • #30941

      Make copies of documents you need. If you remove some on the day you leave he may not notice.
      Leave when he is not at home. Then grab the documents that you need and off you go.
      Take care.
      Keep posting!
      You are very brave!

    • #30957

      You get a travel warrant from the police or they take you.

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