I’m all ready and prepared got a bag in a safe place outside my home. Can’t get any paperwork I might need because he will notice I’ve moved stuff in the letter cupboard (he notices everything). I’ve got my date that I’m ready to leave for refuge.
Now I’m panicking what if I ring the helpline on the day then they have no where for me and my son. He will know I’ve gone and I’ll have nowhere to go. (I’m going to work and leaving from there). And what if it’s too far and I don’t have enough money to get me there. It could be hours away right? Thank you for listening
Make copies of documents you need. If you remove some on the day you leave he may not notice.
Leave when he is not at home. Then grab the documents that you need and off you go.
You are very brave!