This topic contains 9 replies, has 8 voices, and was last updated by  HopeLifeJoy 5 months, 1 week ago.

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  • #87964

    Sometimes we all need a laugh. This is b****y hilarious….

    My ex and I still have some contact because we share a dog.

    He recently got arrested again for assaulting a family member.

    He’s asked me if I’ll provide a character reference.


  • #87967

    😂 this isn’t the first time I’ve Heard of this. There was someone on here who’s ex partner raped her. He was arrested for something and she was contacted by him asking for a character reference. She hadn’t heard from him for ages. They are truly delusional. Convinced they’ve done no wrong. Watch out for his reaction when you refuse. I worry he will harm the dog to hurt you. My ex did x

  • #87969

    Aren’t they truly ridiculous!!!!

    It’s good it made you laugh 😘 x*x

  • #87973
     lover of no contact 

    Shows how delusional they are. However they can still manage to drag us into their world if we can contact. We’ll never be healed enough to have contact with them. Can you organize a third party to deal with him regarding your dog? I’d aim to set up something with the shared care of your dog so that you never get to see his face or hear any of the rubbish that comes out of his mouth.

  • #87975

    It just shows you how they really aren’t on our planet! x

  • #88023

    I’d do it. Provide a reference saying exactly what kind of man he is and that you fully believe that he is capable of what he was accused of!

  • #88024

    Yes Tiffany, what a great idea. It’s a character reference not a positive character reference. How dare he.

  • #88055

    He’d never harm the dog.

  • #88173
     White Rose 

    This made me giggle.
    I’m definitely with Tiffany on this!

  • #88194

    I agree with Tiffany too, grab this occasion to describe him, here some inspiration; ‘useless cheat liar thief drunk stupid idiot abuser’ as character ref ? And send it straight to the police 🙃

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