How likely is that he would be arrested?

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Recently divorced after a long battle doing all diy as he refused to engage with solicitors, mediator etc. He was very violent once mid way through – (detail removed by moderator) Since then threats escalated, pushing me on discussions. He is out now but every interaction with me on kids is aggressive. (detail removed by moderator) He came to my door, demanded I opened or would break it, pushed me, yelled at me, put his hand on my neck once and kicked me 3 times.
He demanded I deleted the messages I sent saying who did I think I was for threatening him, he would call whenever and expect I answered, and go to my house whenever. He called me every name possible, and I just listened. He’d ask for a response and when I tried it was always wrong so he would escalate again.
I’ve only called police once very early on and since he says he doesnt want to see what someone who has nothing to lose is capable of, so keeps me in fear so I never contacted police again. I feel unless he goes straight to jail, I can’t risk the possible repercussions of him actually hurting me, but also cannot live in fear and under his abuse forever…

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Have you contacted your local women’s aid? They would be able to support you through this. Could you get a non-mol order?

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