huh typical

[Worrywart]

hi as you all know my ex has refused to have my son stay over his because of a minor ailment anyway he hasn’t seen him now for a good few weeks and then today out of no where, he msg my eldest to ask if our youngest wanted to stay over his for a couple of nights ….my youngest is (detail removed by moderator) for a different ailment and my ex said he wanted a drs note to say that if anything happens to him while he is staying at his he wont get the blame …whats that all about lol

[KIP.]

It’s all about control, something is going on in the background. He probably wants to prove how good a father he is to his new gf. She’s probably wondering why this wonderful man, as he’s paining himself, isn’t seeing his child. I was in her shoes once and I was the one who encouraged and arranged contact for his child. The doctors note is his way of not looking like he’s backing down. Saving his ego. He’s probably painted you as the villain to his new gf. Painting himself as the victim in all this. I know my ex did this too. Ignore all his drama and see if your child actually wants to go. I don’t think it’s fair on your child that he gets picked up and dropped when his dad feels like it. Perhaps set a regular schedule for him. Even if it’s once a month. I’d hate for him to feel used x

[Flowerchild]

As if any doctor would write such a note, or anyone would take it seriously!

The only response to that is, ‘Don’t be ridiculous!’

It amounts to him saying he believes you’ll make false accusations if he isn’t protected from you. An interesting bit of projection, perhaps?

Flower X

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