HI HUn
Sending hug out to u, if he said doesn t want to see u, then dont go, u made the effort and till asked about him, if he doesnt want to see u , thats fine, again a tst to see if u come, dont go at all, when i left ex he got admitted, on day was going to take kids to see him whist on route he called tosay dont come , dont want to see none of u, i jjust said ok if u sure and put phone down andturn car around, its there loss, just communciate with your son to check your son is ok, its lot for them to deal with