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Dear all
It has been one month and a half now that i managed to leave him with both my kids. It has been challenging and really hard but i couldn’t have done it without support from all of you. I have been thinking of leaving for about a year and it was never the right time although the bag with my documents was prepared. One day i woke up and did all the normal things and after he left i was waiting for the kids to wake up, and in my head i was preparing how do i tell them and what to do if they get distressed. Thank God everything went ok and we got our stuff and left. Now i have a little flat, trying slowly to get on my feet. My ex is behaving so far crying, begging and giving promises but it doesn’t mean that I trust him. I am slowly trying to get to know myself and take my own decisions without his influences . It is so hard to break the cycle and socialize because that was the life I knew for a long time, but i feel strong. I have a message to all the women in these horrible situations to do something and stop this as once you take that first step its your first step to your freedom. Believe me i know this more than everyone because for (detail removed by moderator) i have lived with the idea that this was my destiny and there is no other way. Open your eyes and respect your self because if you don’t no one will. -
Absolutely well done and thank you for posting a positive post. I agree that freedom is worth the struggle. I was decades too but finally enough is enough. Next step is zero direct contact and remember it’s still the most dangerous time for you. You don’t need to hear his manipulation and abuse anymore. He’s not your responsibility. Onwards and upwards x x x
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Congratulations Mira, your story is really encouraging. Good luck to you and your family xx
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