I ended up calling him

[Anonymous]

Is this normal left him for (detail removed by moderator) and I’ve end up calling him why do I do this to myself?

[KIP.]

It’s trauma bonding. You will never get closure. You will just continue in the cycle of his abuse and abuse always gets worse.

[Anonymous]

Thanks kip. He made a comment about his exes and now I feel like nothing. Then he is like I know you care like he’s trying to make me jealous and hurt my feelings. I just can’t win.

[freedomtochoose]

Hello lovely
well done for identifying it.
You just need to get back on the horse, as it were,
try again.
No contact
try again
you slipped, so what people make mistakes
just get back on the horse
ftc
x

[Anonymous]

I feel so weak again 🙁 why am I so stupid. I feel like is it my fault for winding him up as I was annoyed with everything he put me through. Then he starts talking about other women and making me feel like I am not good enough. I just wanted to feel like I was enough. And now I am laying here crying my eyes out again. He says he loves me but why does he hurt me. What did I do so wrong to deserve all this pain? I tried I told him how I felt and look what he does to me laughs and says it’s a joke when he mentions other women to me. Knowing it bothered me in the past then says I can’t take a joke and he can not even banter with me. Why am I made out to be a bad person?

[freedomtochoose]

because that’s what they do hon. No other answer. You can’t relate to them like normal human beings. It doesn’t work, they are looking to exploit your weaknesses and they want you to feel bad about yourself
back on the horse hon with no contact…
ftc
x

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