After years I phoned the police and reported the DA. (detail removed by Moderator) I feel absolutely in shock and sick to my stomach. Both scared and just so deeply sad. I feel worried about him, his relationship with our children, just getting through the next few days. I feel totally overwhelmed by what has happened even though I’m mid divorce and it’s been happening for years. I just want it all to stop.
Once you’ll get full clarity of the situation t.o.t pity for him will end and the realisation will come into focus where no pity should go to him and how you were the wronged party, I do get how you feel I do remember not wanting to get people into trouble and feeling guilty and not wanting to cause problems for them? when I wasn’t seeing it clearly, it was they that were causing the problems and their actions that led to police calls countless times and my almost need of taking out a restraining order, it’s still early but one day you will see it