The fact that I received another typical text “I don’t know how to approach you any more…” I will stop there, boring and pathetic.
It almost makes me feel like I am relaying to an Agony Aunt magazine, so I am sorry for posting this.
But then he describes something else and also says he has gone to get some…(alcohol).
Now I have to decide if I stay with my kids or go to my friend’s…
I don’t want to be on the receiving end of a man who drinks on an empty stomach. I know what he does to get his “fix”, he eats nothing all day so that the alcohol reaches his brain very quickly. I dont like it. If I say something it will degenerate.
I cleaned up the mess left by …and I will assess in a little while what I will do.
I shouldn’t have to feel this way.
I think u r experiencing trauma bonding, he knows exactly what he is doing by sending u messages like that, as hard as it is try to ignore him and do not reply to him , he is trying to get a reaction out of u. Please post as musch as u need to