Hi,
This is my first post. I am just slowly coming to realise that my relationship was controlling, coercive and toxic. I have suffered physical and emotional abuse that left me in hospital to which I protected them and said I fell. I have just upped and left my own home which I own, however the person is still living there, contributing nothing of any financial sort. I fled with nothing. I have a disability so my family have helped me get emergency meds. I guess I am just writing because … uh well, I don’t know really. I don’t know who I am anymore. I think I may have over reacted. I dont know if it really was that bad … I’ve lost myself. I’m scared and keep asking to do basic things (like get a drink or use the toilet) or keep over apologising e.g (I’m not coming downstairs, Im so sorry). I have such a huge support network and am so lucky in that respect but I feel so guilty that I left. I feel such shame and grief. Everyone is being so supportive but I’m deeply numb and jumpy and scared. Tell me it gets easier …
Sorry for the essay
Take care everyone x*x Stay safe