I want him to leave

[Ami-dor]

Is ist possible to get help with getting someone out of your house? My partner won’t leave. It’s my house and he doesn’t pay anything towards it b. He says he will leave but it will take him weeks to pack up. He won’t. He’s said this before and he never does. He has no money and nowhe8to go so I get its not easy but I can’t live like this anymore and I want him to leave before he hurts me more or changes my mind. I don’t know how to get him out.

[SunshineRainflower]

Hi there just noticed you didn’t have any replies yet. Yes I believe there is a way to do this since it’s your house, have you been in touch with the police about him before? If it were me I would ring them on 101 to get their advice, I’ve rung them before on that number and found it helpful. Also ring the women’s aid helpline, rights of women and citizen’s advice.

[J@jmum]

Absolutely there is. I second speaking to the police.
Could you not change the locks when he is out? Warn the police that you will be incase he causes issues. Make sure you’re not alone etc when he likely to come home.
Pull the rug from under him. Don’t ask him, make him. Do it before he even noticed you have. But be safe!
Then after that if he doesn’t stay away it’s trespassing and threats and breach of peace so again it’s police and lots of court orders to limit his access to your home/street from there

[J@jmum]

The more abuse you encounter of any kind the more you need to document, advise women’s aid and police. Build the true picture as it will help others help you and keep him away from you in future

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