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      Hi all. Such a bad day yesterday yet again. We have just come out of a two week cycle and managed to talk about things and yet it all started again. Have you ever been shouted at in public? I asked him to calm and not do this in public he said he didn’t care and continued. He tried to trip me up drove home like an idiot and continued the verbal abuse in the car. Pushing me against the car door while driving. All this because he was off with me in the morning. (detail removed by moderator). He started getting frustrated and raising his voice. I walked away. Now I’m told he feels everything I do sex, the clothes I wear are to keep him happy and that he feels it’s all false. I assured him I do t do false and it’s his problem but it leaves me feeling uneasy that he’ll never believe in me and I’ll be thinking he thinks it’s false. (detail removed by moderator) I feel like he’s wanting me to end the relationship so he isn’t the bad one. I don’t know how to be around him now how I should act. God I want to scream. (detail removed by moderator) Not once did I lose my temper but watched him get more and more frustrated until he lost it and starts the put downs. God I’m exhausted.

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      So sorry to hear this. To be honest you could have been an English professor speaking and you would have still been wrong.
      It’s not you. It’s him. Nothing you say or do will be right because they don’t view us as equals.
      It’s just to put someone down and it’s us because they feel they own us.
      They don’t change. Please look after yourself.

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