I wonder what stage

[betterdays]

He’s at with his new woman after nearly a month? X

[Serenity]

Love-bombing and hooking but starting to show his selfishness in little ways X

[betterdays]

I just have this terrible image in my head that he’s a total reformed character and I drove him to it x

[Serenity]

No. None of the abusers I know have ever changed.

[KIP.]

Whatever stage it will be one big act X

[betterdays]

Love that kip… Ha x

[Anonymous]

How do you feel about the fact he is with another women Betterdays?

I have got no doubt my ex was either seeing someone when I was with him or started seeing someone very soon, ie. a week after we split up. We was a proper couple when he was doing this, lying and cheating to me. I don’t feel as awful as I thought I would though, the thought of him with someone else. X*X

[betterdays]

Hi it really hurts. Makes me think the problem lies with me. I mean it must be me because he’s still managed to get someone xx

[Anonymous]

I think men operate differently to women when couples split up. Every man i’ve ever known moves on very quickly, normally within a month or two they might start dating. Women tend to wait longer. But they also tend to get involved easily, i.e not have many standards. A lot of men just use women for sex but pretend they want more. I dont think this is all plain sailing with your ex and this new woman. X

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