Because the kids aren’t their priority.
They themselves are.
Before I blocked my ex, I told him to only text me about the children.
The sick man then texted me asking about the kids in line 1- but then going directly into things such as demanding I don’t involve solicitors etc.
So he was just faking concern for the kids, just using them as a lead-in for his manipulative tactics.
I could cry. My boys are beautiful, kind and amazing. Yet there is no real bond there between them and their dad. It’s heartbreaking.
I never imagined this.