I was thinking today how a huge part of my feeling low is how – or when- I have felt a loss of faith or trust in people or the world.
But it occurred to me that – whilst I must be more careful- I can’t let him change me. A big part of my personality and happiness was my joy in giving. Doing things for others isn’t codependency- giving to the wrong people or putting up with abuse is wrong, but we are meant to share and give to others.
If I were to lose trust in people and lose confidence in giving, I would become like him. I am not going to let him change me.
I read a quote today which I think summed it up:
“My love is free, but my trust is earned.
Do not mistake my kindness for weakness, because integrity is my greatest strength.”
Here’s to remaining a giving person- with boundaries! X