If my ex had called me over 20 times

[Anonymous]

In a day using a few different numbers is this harassment? I’d wondered this at the time x

[Cedarlemon]

Hi
Yes this is definitely harrasment , no one needs to call anyone that many times and especially from different numbers . Obviously by calling you from different numbers he expected you to pick up . With my ex abuser at his worst it was 20-30 times a day and like your ex used to use different numbers which I had to keep blocking, it was a nightmare. I had a lot of advice from some ladies on this site at the time which proved invaluable. Hope you ok xx

[Anonymous]

Thanks cedar lemon. Yes I guess I’m going over things… First it were his number…then the works mobile… then his parents house phone I blocked them.all….he used to use special events to try reel me back….like our anniversary…..why does that change anything??? I contacted his ex wife once she arranged the times ….he found out and called me a stalker and how he were prepared to get me some professional help because of my obsession with her…..😀

[Cedarlemon]

Yes it’s quite normal to think about things and go over them in your mind. It’s so draining isn’t it having to block but it is the only way. I think he’s the one that needed professional help , just shows how they twist and manipulate things doesn’t it 🙄 They never take the blame for anything they do just blame everyone else x

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