I’ve come a long way over (detail removed by Moderator)..moved country..new home..new life new job…survived (detail removed by Moderator) heart attacks and open heart surgery
But young adult son…who was a s school age teenager back then grabbed me by the wrist and frog marched me out of his room…I was suddenly right back there
I’ve told him in no certain terms this unacceptable behaviour…he now says when he goes to uni he is going to cut all contact with me…and blames his father and ME for ruining his life…
I have said I should have left sooner son…and I love you your my child.
Huge overtones of his father…told him you have to. Change your core beliefs you. can’t treat your mother or ANY woman this way..
It’s not JUST A WELL I Wanted you out of my room!..
I don’t want to over react but it took me back to the days of his father pushing me. Around and locking me in rooms when he wanted to talk…I just don’t know
Can’t talk to the extended family I don’t want them to judge him…or my other children would hit the roof..
Just ignoring it is like going back to the old days