I’m aware

[Headcook]

I’m aware I will be discarded by him when all this comes to an end

It happened with my abusive x

Spent a decade scared to leave for fear of him coming after me etc
It never happened and I never saw or spoke with him again like a decade never happened

He is my son and I will be discarded in fact I already have been !
He has his replacement ‘her ‘
That’s why he held on with me his mum all this time
She is proving good material
He kicked off at (removed by moderator) she got up and was clearly to scared to go back to bed and I gave up my bed for her and unwell baby

What the hell am I doing !!

Hc

[KIP.]

You’re trapped in that same cycle and it won’t be broken until you leave. I chose to walk away and if that means my son discarded me then I can live with being discarded by someone who was making me ill. It’s only a matter of time before his partner leaves with his child and you will be left alone with him. I’d get out before that happens. Being discarded by someone who hurts you is not a bad thing x

[Headcook]

I’m getting there kip
Don’t even like him for what he is doing
Yes that’s the worst ending being stuck with him if she leaves first
I would be at an even greater risk than I am now being left with him
I would instantly be to blame for her leaving
It’s best she stays in denial
Even if this means I take it all from him
I’m sure she not blind even if she in denial

Never looked at it the way you describe that it will be no loss to be discarded as hopefully I can be rid of his behaviour to me

Hc

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