I’m free but frightened

[Sunrise]

So, today I ended my abusive relationship. It was so very hard and I’m still not 100% sure I did the right thing but it’s done. I know there will be lots of hurdles to come but I’m over one of them. I have very mixed emotions as to be expected, but at the risk of sounding self absorbed, I was looking for any words of encouragement. I have read lots of inspiring stories on here from such incredibly strong women which are invaluable x*x

[KIP.]

Hey there, the early days are hard. Try to distract yourself with things you love to do. Be kind to yourself. Destroy all his contact details and block his numbers first. Its a rollercoaster of emotions but if you stick with it, the journey gets easier until eventually you realise what a lucky escape you had. Lots of new happy adventures to look forward to x

[Relieved]

Well done for finishing it. That’s a huge hurdle. I felt exhausted after my ex finally left after months of that walking on eggshell feeling. Have you got support from family or friends? As KIP says, avoid all contact. You did the right thing. Keep posting, we will support you. Big hugs x*x

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