Hey there Hope,
That is a difficult feeling. And I recognise it.
If it helps at all I try to reframe it and say:
‘I’m not the person I was, because I’m a different, new person who has learned new skills and wisdom.
Saying this to myself sometimes helps.
With the backdrop of the pandemic, sometimes I’ve found it difficult to seperate what ‘my’ issues are due to having had traumas in my life, and what is simply the mass trauma of a global pandemic that we are all living through all the time in recent years since it all started.
This kind of helps me that process of naming stuff.
I try to see the resilience I gained by emerging from all of the things I emerged from has given me exactly the right skills to see me through the pandemic with my small new family.
Well done on the driving. I’ve still got to cross that bridge.