This was not planned, I was on the pill. I just found out today. My three kids live with a family member (my ex is a sex offender and I had a massive breakdown). I have decided already to try and get them back with me, but this news today has spurred me on. With things the way they are I feel as though I have to choose between my kids and my baby. I don’t want my kids to feel like I don’t want them. I was not ready to have them back until recently I needed to get myself well. I’m a lot better now most of the time and feel in control of my life. I’ve just finished my (detail removed by Moderator) year of university so I’ve no idea what’s happening with that now….. I’m still in utter shock to be honest. This is the worst timing to have a baby but I can’t have a termination. I already love my baby.
Kitty what a shock for you. It sounds like you’ve come so far and worked so hard. I’m not sure what I can say to help but I can hear that you really love and care about your children, even your baby already. I really hope you are able to get your family back together and can maybe defer your course for a year x*x