Hey Icandothis,
It’s just all part of their service – they keep us reliant on them to keep feeding their ego, keep the little woman in a place of weakness. And then the b******s use this misplaced trust to ridicule and control us.
Don’t feel guilty about this – it is not your fault – they are wolves in sheep’s clothing!
This is something my expartner excels at and I’m a sucker for it! I fall for it all the time! I’m too b****y brainwashed to tell the truth (from childhood) and I so need to learn and respect my own boundaries!
I’m in this one with you – love and hugs xx