Im stuck

[Alittlelost]

I cant bring myself to leave. Ive been trying for ages. After a recent suicide attempt my boyf has started treating me well again and im falling for it. Im never going to be able to leave. He even brought me a valentines present. Ive not had a gift from him in years. Im sucked in again but i do remember all the underlying bad abuse issues. Im so fonfused. I dont think il ever be able to leave.

[Anonymous]

You will when you’re ready. We all feel like that. Have you spoken to anyone at WA about your situation?

You’re right he’s just trying to suck you back in aagain. It’s what they do. Try reading Lundy Bancroft’s “Why Does He Do That?”. It really opened my eyes.

[Scapegoat]

I hope you’re ok? Have you got anybody who could support you in leaving? Like somewhere to go for a while? I’m really sorry you felt like ending things and can only imagine how helpless you feel. Have you tried speaking to your GP? As I really think you need someone to talk to.
I feel like you ( I’m not trying to belittle how you feel) in that I feel helpless, cannot leave, have nowhere to turn or feel like a burden or feel like things will get worse. So like you there are lots of times when I feel like ending it is the only way out. But then I think of my son, who it would destroy as I’m sure there are people close to you who’d feel the same. He’s not worth losing your life for. You’ve been really brave in speaking up. I’m sorry I can’t help you more. Sending big hugs and love❤️💕

[Alittlelost]

Thanks for ur replies. Im going to a local womans aid support group but do many people attend i dont get chance to say much. Im sure i will figure something out.

[KIP.]

Can you ask to speak to someone at women’s aid on your own. Try to ask for a one to one appointment x I found the groups overwhelming

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