In a bit of a state

[Free5]

I have just found out im pregnant just feel so confused about it I haven’t told anyone yet

[Lavenderrose]

try and stay calm….I know easier said than done. don’t feel pressured to make any decisions, you need time and space. sending love xx

[Free5]

I’m trying to stay calm but not easy my head is already all over the place since separating just so much to think about what a mess already trying to think ahead whether he should be involved in this or not I’m seeing my domestic violence support worker this week so may have to have a chat with her about it

[Flowerchild]

Do tell your support worker first, darling. There’s an awful lot to think about. A child means potentially having the abuser with a foot in the door for the next twenty years or more. That’s why they often force risky situations even of you don’t want a baby.

The choice is yours, even the choice of telling him or not. Be very careful who you do tell as it could get back to him.

Huge hugs,

Flower x

[Free5]

We have a child together already that he will see I think for now I will tell my mum and the support worker I need to process the situation too it has been quite a shock as I was on the pill but I know I couldn’t terminate I just wouldn’t be able to do that just guess I will have to talk it through with people and make the decisions when I need to

[diymum@1]

make sure you dont put him on the birth certificate xx id get the heads up with a solicitor how to go about this at the earliest stage possible. know where you stand xx this should be such a happy time for you too xx luv diymum

[Free5]

Can I do this I thought you had to put the dad the birth certificate we are married too not sure if that makes a difference

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