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    • #43689
      Anonymous
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      Well I’ve been having neck pain traveling down my left arm pins and needles in.my fingers
      Doc requested I needed further investigation. So been to hospital for an emg and nerve study
      Found out that my left arm is very sluggish due to weakness .. i told hospital my past etc about what my ex did and how he covered it so well .doc reckons i also have nerve damage in my neck again from my ex

      He said i probably never noticed as i was working .and now iam not working due to ptsd
      The pain has kicked in

      I will never forgive my abuser for this i hoping one day he will pay .i dont want revenge i want justice after the police failed me

    • #43699
      Relieved
      Participant

      Sorry to hear you are in pain, it is a horrid reminder of what happened to you. I hope you get the right treatment to heal properly both physically and psychologically. Sending virtual hugs and healing thoughts x

    • #43702
      Ayanna
      Participant

      Aaarghh!!!!!
      I too have a few life long injuries (detail removed by Moderator).
      Constant reminders of what happened to me.

      There is no justice for us because we are women.
      The entire system on this d****d planet is misogynist.

      Nobody cares how we get on in life with these injuries.

      If we were men we would get benefits for the injuries. As women we can either die of starvation or suffer daily at work.

      Patriarchy wants every woman dead who resists abuse.

    • #43708
      Nova
      Participant

      Iamfree..so sorry to hear this..I’m hoping your getting proper medical support for the pain which is so stressful as well as hurting.
      It’s a hateful thing he has left you with, and you will slowly recover in freedom, (doesn’t make it any less tough though)
      We are affected by our past..in so many different ways, illnesses are another hateful reminder of what we have escaped, go easy with yourself, don’t try to push yourself too hard, ask for any help around..you can only do what you can atm..your the best judge of your body.

      Hugs Cx

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