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constant intimidation from him..
Help…the house almost to sale and he does not agree sums distributions and they going to freeze the money!how can i raise my kids,country in crisis no job(i am looking for many months)the social serv. -SS might think to take my kids away?…i am really desperate…once i sign the house sale will be without a roof over our heads.I am really worried.He just ignored the LA .solicitor again makes it harder to get justice and private no.threats on a spooky voice that he will never let me be.Unfortunately i did not got enough time to re-ggig device to record it…
What to do?without a house and a job with kids ,no idea at moment..just keep looking everywhere.Sooo tired and afraid again. -
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Thank you Kitkat ,i ve done all those and no help …i am seriously thinking there is no hope.If we do not agree on sum division i would be signing my house off and receive no money to re -edit life.Family abroad are desperate…they worry about my children,about me.We can not even afford to go abroad to them.We are stuck.
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You need to talk to a solicitor. PM Lisa as well. There is Always Hope and there is a way out but you gotta really dig down deep now sweetheart, you really do and just say to yourself here, NO, this is absolutely NOT acceptable! Keep your wits about you because when in distress and all that, your mind will get scattered and overcome by fear and anxiety.
Do NOT sign your house off! He has to agree on a sum here. But it has to be equitable to you and he is bullying you.
Document everything, record him with your phone, most of them can record. He’s wanting his way here and don’t give it to him. If you sell the house you get your portion, right? You fight for that no matter what. Then you would have money to go abroad, right? Keep all your texts, emails, voice messages. Private numbers can be traced, btw. 🙂 What a clever boy but they never are as smart as they think they are.
Do talk to Lisa because it sounds like if you feel you are not getting help then you need to go somewhere else because this is serious and there has to be help for you asap. I don’t do well with that one because you don’t help me, I’ll either beat down your door or I go somewhere else and demand it.
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Can you try and halt the completion of the sale until Lockdown is eased more and you are freeer to go abroad or for your family to come to you? You have good grounds to do that. He can’t make you homeless. Honestly Social Services will not take your children away unless there is a safeguarding issue which I’m presuming there isn’t from you. Being homeless does also not mean they will take your children away. It means they will have to find you a home, and you will be top of the list. Please get in touch with Universal Credit (look online) and the Job Centre and sign on to benefits if you haven’t already. Then if you can contact your local housing officer at the council and tell them the problem. They have a duty to house you if you and your children if you are being made homeless. Just remember, it will be ok, stay strong, try and write a list this evening, get a good nights sleep if you can tonight, and start tomorrow a new fresh day and make some calls, or send emails. Don’t sign anything you are not comfortable with. Just say you need more time. Noone can make you. There is a global pandemic. He cannot make you homeless.
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