Been faffing on YouTube all day…..
I’ve come across something that was very enlightening.
This came about after I’d learnt about ‘vulnerable n********ts ‘ (Les Carter), and thought it applied to me.
A lady called Angie Atkinson, who talks about ‘n********tic fleas’!
Basically, in a nut shell, it’s like learned behaviour and from what I ascertained, goes along with a trauma response.
Have a look – I found it very useful!
Luvnhugz to you all xx