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      Anonymous
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      He has taken cocaine because he can’t cope with his feelings I don’t know if he really has or is lying but it is breaking my heart. He made me feel so low last night that even I started smoking weed again. Then today he goes and takes cocaine. What am I doing so wrong. I am confused and don’t know what to believe anymore. Every time I say I’m going to leave there is a put down. Or he makes me feel bad. I can’t even leave anymore.

    • #59295
      KIP.
      Participant

      You’re trapped in an abusive relationship. No it’s not your fault but abuse always gets worse. No contact is the only way to break free. Any contact brings mind games and manipulation. Do you have someone from women’s aid helping you? What he’s doing is illegal and criminal. Don’t let him drag you down by doing illegal things too. He can blackmail you and hold this over you too. You can start no contact again anytime. Just tell him by text and if he contact you then report him to the police. He’s using and abusing you.

    • #59309
      Chickadee
      Participant

      The drugs make the situation even worse. They further fuel his ability to keep you there and further hinder your ability to leave.

      First, stop taking drugs, they alter your state of mind even more.

      Then get out. Better yet do them simutaneously. Or get completely off once your out and away.

      Your in a very unsafe situation with the mixture of an abuser and drugs.

      We are all here for you when you need to talk or if you need help. Hugs n prayers!

      Chickadee

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