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    • #94798
      Justholdingon
      Participant

      Yesterday, I spent half the day in bed because I had a flashback of asking him to stop. It wasn’t nice, but at least not one of my painful flashbacks.

      Today, I’m spending half the day in bed in pain. I started bleeding again. I know I need to get out of bed, but for some reason I feel that if I stay in bed its not really real.

    • #94799
      Justholdingon
      Participant

      Sorry, I do feel I moan a lot, but here is the only place I feel safe saying things.

    • #94800
      KIP.
      Participant

      Why are you bleeding? If he has hurt you please ring an ambulance x dial 999

    • #94801
      Justholdingon
      Participant

      I can’t go to hospital. I don’t want lo knowing just how badly I have been hurt.

    • #94802
      KIP.
      Participant

      You need to ring 999 right away and get an ambulance. They will help you. You don’t need to say anything to them but you definitely need help. If you’re in pain and bleeding there could be terrible damage done that needs medical attention. Please ring 999. They will understand and help. At least check you over and give you some pain medication.

    • #94803
      KIP.
      Participant

      The ambulance staff can help you and check you over even if you don’t want to go to hospital x it’s really important that you get yourself checked out. You don’t want permanent damage. Please ring them x

    • #94804
      KIP.
      Participant

      Where are you bleeding from? Did he sexually assault you? It’s ok to talk as the forum is anonymous if you want to tell me x

    • #94805
      Cecile
      Participant

      Please get medical help. X

    • #94812
      Louloubee
      Participant

      Is this lady ok???? IM really worried ??? Where are you bleeding from exactly??? Get back to us all 💓💓💓💓

    • #94828
      Lisa
      Main Moderator

      Hi Justholdingon,

      As the other women are expressing, this is very concerning and it’s important you get the help you need. Please do not hesitate to call 999 if you need medical care. Understandably you are feeling protective of what your child sees, but your child needs you to be safe and well.
      Please do post here to let us know how you are as we are all concerned for you.
      Let me know if there is anything you need.

      Take care,

      Lisa

    • #94831
      cirrocumulus
      Participant

      I’ve bled outside of the normal cycle of things, and it’s really scary. Was caused by chronic stress and emotional trauma. If this is what’s happened to you Justholdingon then medical assistance is needed urgently as the bleeding can only be stopped by taking clotting pills, which can only be prescribed by a doctor. Thinking of you x

    • #94837
      Alittlelost
      Participant

      I hope ur ok, please message and let us know whats happening.

    • #94838
      Justholdingon
      Participant

      Hi there,

      Sorry for worrying everyone. I had to dash around being a Mum. I’m bleeding from something he did to me years ago. He can’t hurt me now and just resorts to controlling me through my daughter.

      Most of the time the bleeding isn’t too bad but this morning it was a whole fill the loo thing again. I just get so destroyed by the thought that I may never heal properly.

    • #94846
      KIP.
      Participant

      Thank you for sharing and letting us know you’re ok ish. Please go back to the doctor as this doesn’t sound right. You need to look after your health now for your daughters sake. I hope you have support from women’s aid in how to minimise the damage and access he has to you both. Keep posting. I’m sorry you’re still suffering because of this man but you’re stronger than you know. We often neglect our own health but it’s important you take care of yourself. You need to be as healthy as possible to fight the long fight. We are all here for you 👍

    • #94851
      Justholdingon
      Participant

      I got up the nerve a couple of times to tell the GP that I needed help, but each time I get rebuffed.

      Bleed so much it fills the loo? Not worried about the cause. Here’s some cream. Go away.

    • #94856
      KIP.
      Participant

      Sadly we have to hold our ground and be assertive. Not easy given our background. Try to insist it’s not going away and further exploration is needed. It’s your health, you know best x

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