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      Not having a great time at the moment. Have been out for a while now, but just recently the loneliness I am feeling is hurting. I know COVID restrictions don’t help but some days it feels like the call I know I should not make would be so easy to do, at least when I was being abused there was someone there. I am usually ok by myself but just now feel like rubbish. Sorry for the moan, having a pity party but I am the only guest.

    • #122168

      Hi My beautiful Angel … Beachhut,
      You are totally entitled to have a pity party so don’t feel bad for it … have it and then move on.
      It’s natural to be feeling like you do especially with all the restrictions of covid.
      Start working on yourself though my darling. When we come out of these relationships we need to be building on our self love and self worth.
      Look after yourself today… ask yourself what does my heart need today?
      Put on a favourite song and just let loose and dance, have a lovely bubble bath or take an afternoon nap … what do you need?
      Start tuning into yourself and honoring your needs. After all now you are now free. Start to write a gratitude journal for all the things you are grateful for however little they are and the difference between your life then and now.
      You are not alone, so don’t feel that you are … stay connected
      Sending you love and support
      Darcy xx

    • #122169

      Hi Beachut
      I know how you feel, i dont have friends or family.
      Loneliness, is a sad feeling.
      Do you have friends or family?

    • #122170

      Beachut i forgot to ask, do you have a job?

    • #122176

      It’s so hard during lockdown and the darkness of winter has just been the worst. Remember all the bad times. When I feel lonely I remember how alone I was in my relationship. No comfort, no joy. I walked past a couple yesterday and a pang of sadness hit me. I missed him. Then I remembered how that would not have been us even if I was still there. We lived separate lives.
      Bad days always pass ❤️

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