Hi Hun
The feirst year always is a rollcoaster of emotions for the children and you. HOpe u have a support network who can help you. Have u got a family support worker that can guide u with your son, are you working with the school, not sure of your child age, but when i left my ex i infomred the school i was in a abusive realtionship and we worked to support my child behaviour, i got every agency possible involved to help me with my son. This is a difficult satge please stay strong and keep posting if u need help with different startegies to try