Hi Tobfree
Thank you for your post. I just wanted to show you some support. It sounds like a really difficult situation, your partner is jealous over your relationship with your children but this is unfair and not ok to make you feel like you have done something wrong when you are just being a good mum. I know you have said on another post that you are planning to reach out for support, which I hope will help you to make a plan for when you feel ready.
Please keep posting to let us know how you are,
Lisa