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    have disabilitys so need help with many things
    and im exhusted with his mind games guilt trips gas lighting projecting coersion and blaming me trying to make out im the most horrid person ever who treats him so bad and makes him feel so unloved etc etc
    about anything i do with or for my adult sons daughters that he does not like or agree with
    and he will badger bully and down right mind torture me until i eitheir brake down in tears
    or become so scared with his mind games and cold cruel vindictive acts towards me i get so scared
    or so exhusted and just agree to pander to his needs to pacify him in hoping he will treat me with love and kindness like he use too
    it just seems this covid 19 isolation we are in has whipped him up into abusing more and more
    we dont live together thank god yet its still slow torture what hes doing to me
    and i just dont feel strong enough to leave with all the covid 19 stuff going on too
    are any of u ladies who have sons daughters who are adults having the same jealous abusive cruel behaviors done to you too

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    Hi Tobfree

    Thank you for your post. I just wanted to show you some support. It sounds like a really difficult situation, your partner is jealous over your relationship with your children but this is unfair and not ok to make you feel like you have done something wrong when you are just being a good mum. I know you have said on another post that you are planning to reach out for support, which I hope will help you to make a plan for when you feel ready.

    Please keep posting to let us know how you are,


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