Hi there, you’re going to have moments like this. Just accept the feelings and let them go. He was always a despot and dictator but hid it behind a mask. What you miss is the nice fake him, we all miss that part of them. It’s how they kept us hooked in. You loved someone deeply once and that only goes to prove the depth of feelings you are capable of. Be proud of that. No amount of loving him however will keep you safe or change his ways. The feelings get less and less intense but it’s only natural you would wonder about someone you once cared so much for. It’s just a shame he was incapable of returning that love. Sending a huge 🤗 hug x onwards and upwards x