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    Love bombed me for years n for years
    He portrayed himself as the perfect partner
    supportive kind caring going out of his way for me

    Then the criticisms start and the blaming the guilt trips the gas lighting the threats of leaving me using any tactics possible to scare me hurt me mental emotional psychological abuse

    Ive Read up on trauma bonding i know that’s what ive been subjected to too

    And the lies he told me and the deception for years

    I was an easy target cos of past abuses from past abusers and im easy target for other reasons which he used to his advantage and used many mind games

    And now hes using any lie to push me to end it with him
    As ive been trying to get out bit by bit

    So i guess he found some one else to abuse and a new victim is easier to abuse than me

    His Patterns of abuse are getting worse and more severe

    I know to be careful ending it and i will do it bit by bit

    And as u can imagine its a very confusing difficult traumatic time for me im needing all the support i can get

  • #87752

    Hi Tobfree
    It’s very good you took the decision to end it.
    And you are very right going about cautiously because it is a dangerous time when you’re leaving.
    Please call the helpline to help you plan a safe exit.
    You’re taking a brave step. Go step by step.
    Be safe and keep posting
    Sending you strength

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