Good morning, mine tried everything in less than an hour. It’s what they do to try and get a reaction from you. They are so desperately insecure they will try anything. Mine even offered to go and get help! At the time it didn’t register as he was still telling me everything was my fault. But like you, when he was gone from my life, my brain started remembering and re organising and dealing with all the confusion and abuse. Get your thoughts out there, process them without the influence of your abuser. Let your mind sort it out. It will take time but don’t try to overthink why he did what he did. He is an abuser and you will never work it out. I doubt even he knows why he said the things he said. Have a great day and do something nice for yourself. You deserve it❤️