I thought it was all about getting back at the person who did you wrong – it’s not! It’s about good things happening to you/us. I’ve discovered it’s not about revenge, it’s not about hurting the other person, it’s not about wanting them to feel the pain and fear they made us feel.
It’s about moving on in life, in a positive way. It’s truly realising I have an amazing family and the best of friends. It’s little gestures from these amazing people that get me through.
Yesterday I was given beautiful flowers and some chocolates from a friend, because she wanted to give me them and spend time with me. What a lovely thing to do.
Also neither of us can afford to buy or run a car individually so we’re now sharing a car, 50/50. We now have much more freedom. We don’t live in each others pocket. We’re just grown ups with no hidden agenda.
How refreshing 😃😃😃