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      Texas
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      This week has been hard, and a real mixture of thoughts and feelings. I could have posted on different threads but to try and see the positives of the week I have chosen this one!

      Yes I have cried, but I am finding the day after I am feeling much stronger. Not so much two steps forward and one step back, more going backwards to extend the catapult to propell me further then I have been before!

      I have also learnt to seperate out the fake ‘nice’ person from the Devil. By doing this, I accept now that the nice person never really existed, is dead and I can grieve for that. The real person who still lives, I never want to see him again.

      Just wanted to share and I hope this helps someone else.

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      Lisa
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      Hi Texas,

      I’m so glad to hear that you’re feeling stronger and stronger, despite (or because of!) working through difficult feelings. It’s huge to not only come to the realisation that the nice person didn’t exist, but to give yourself the kindness of allowing you to grieve for that to help you let that person go. Thank you for sharing this.

      Take care and keep posting,
      Lisa

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