I have found out today that he has been trying to intimidate someone I work with. I can’t have anyone else’s lives wrecked by this person, so have made a decision. I am resigning from my job and have given notice on my rented property. I am moving away and going to start a new life, away from him. I don’t know where we will go but as far a way as possible.
Keep reporting all of these incidents to the police, you could go with your colleague who he threatened to the police together? Don’t let him get away with any of it.
Do you have support from womens aid and your local domestic abuse team to plan a move? What about a refuge, is that something that could work?