Hi Llgirl
This is really common, although its hard to hear and I’m sorry you are going through this. The more you read about this and talk about it the easier it will be to deal with, because you come to realise its not personal to you, as its all about them, and this is what they do.
Its painful to go through though, hearing these things, but the agencies around it are used to hearing them cry victim, but it becomes apparent, as you say, you know the truth and have your evidence.
warmest wishes
ts